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“So…I’m going to go fist a guy. Do you mind if I acquire your nail clippers?”

Before I head home from anywhere in New York, I like to hop on the ~apps~. In a new neighborhood, there are new boys, and I’m fresh meat. The messages flood my inbox, and I get to flood a hole (or two).

I was finishing a resourceful writers’ brunch in the West Village when I asked my friend if I could stay five minutes more to detect a man on my way to the subway.

“Take your time,” he said, sympathetic to my horny plight.

Quickly, I started messaging, “Hey, what you up to?” to every lad with a fat ass. A few replied with lackluster responses, but one twunk replied, “Chilling. Here, just trying to obtain fisted.”

His profile pic was a zoomed-in pic of him on all fours—you could only see his slender waist ballooning out to a big ol’ donk. I had only fisted someone once, and that was years ago—a veteran gay in San Francisco who had been getting fisted since before I was born.

This male was my age and, more importantly, lived by my train. I told him I could be there in fifteen minutes. But before heading out, I saw my lengthy, unmanicured fingerna

What Is It About Fisting That Some Gay Men Are Attracted To?

The Fister is actually doing two important things physically to the Fistee.

He’s one expanding the exterior and interior sphincter muscles, forcing them to relax and then contract again around his wrist and perhaps arm. Stay with us, don’t faint. It’s more frightening to actually see it in slow motion on a video. The sensation is one of being opened and filled. Which requires a lot of relaxation, lube and trust. Don't just grant someone you met that night fist you. And make sure they extract rings and watches and their nails are clipped
So you take a hand and push it into an orifice that’s generally smaller than a hand and that’s fisting. And most people are like “yuck,” even though fisting isn’t that much objectively weirder than regular, garden-variety sex. But the mechanics and implied violence turn people off, and so fisting has a stigma.

But for many, the stigma is unwarranted and fisting is a bliss. So, for the sake of fostering honest and stigma-free conversations around sex in all its variously human forms, we spoke to a few people who enjoy it. Both giving, as well as receiving. They spoke about how they discove

Fisting

This post is written by Chris Dunbar, our Sexual Health Outreach Worker.

When it comes to activity in the bedroom, no one can tell you what you can and can’t do. Trying new things often makes it more exciting and fun, particularly if you are the adventurous type. The vital thing is to produce sure you do things safely.

So, lets take the plunge, and explore the less commonly talked about act of fisting.

Right, so where do we begin? Just like with fisting, let’s not just dive straight in. Let’s grab some time to equip . Let’s look at some of the history, data, and risks associated, then we can lube ourselves up and learn some techniques and tips to give it a go.

What is Fisting?

So, as the name suggests, fisting is a sexual activity in which a hand is inserted into the rectum or vagina. Once the hand is inside, the fingers can be clenched into a fist or kept straight, this is down to personal choice or choice. Although commonly practised with a second person, fisting can be performed solo.

Other names may include: handballing, fist fucking, hoofing, fister, giving a Muppet, or the five-finger butt blast, to deliver just a few.

The History

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Contents

These questions are asked me frequently:

Does it hurt to be fisted?

No. It does not offend at all. More data for guys who are completely new to fistfucking is available on the page alles over fisten (only in Dutch right now, I am active on a translation in all about fisting).

How extended does it last until a newbie can fetch fisted?

That is completely diverse from one person to an other. Some guys can take a fist in their first try. Others will never be able to take a fist&#; An experienced fister will be able to tell you if you have talent to receive fisted.

Two things have to happen to be competent to take a fist. First of all, the muscle of your anus has to be stretched. (See next question). Second your body needs to have enough &#;free space&#; after the anus. I have met a rare guys that really can&#;t take any large dissent in there.

What is the best way to unlock my anus so I can take a fist?

Your anus is a muscle. Like other muscles in your body, you can do exercises to construct it larger. The most common way to stretch the anus is by inserting dildos or butt plugs. But this is always in the route your body is not used to.

My advise it to use an