Why do i attract gay men as a woman
What Gay and Bi Men Really Want
Are physical and sexual attraction the most appealing qualities in a partner? Or are unseen qualities like good manners and reliability the most attractive?
Following on from his research into what linear women want and what straight men want, D&M Research’s managing director Derek Jones has taken the next logical step with his latest study into what gay and bi(sexual) men want.
In order to dig deeper and outline out a true list of turn-ons and turn-offs for gay and bi men, Derek once again used of the Im-Ex Polygraph method. He originally devised this method of analysis to distinguish what people say they want from brands, products or services from what they really want by comparing stated versus derived measures of importance.
Qualities the queer and bi men said they desired in a partner (‘stated’) were compared to the qualities introduce in example celebrities they nominated as attractive (‘implied’). The same comparison was made between stated and implied negative qualities, to determine what attributes are really the biggest turn-offs.
What gay and bi men say they want
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Can a gay man be attracted to a specific girl, but not women in general, and sti
I absolutely do think it possible for a lgbtq+ man to be attracted to a specific miss, but not women in general.
I am a heterosexual woman and own been with my husband for almost ten years. As newly weds, I quickly realized that my husband was gay. Initially I didn't mention anything, cause it didn't bother me, as we were very in love, glad and comfortable with one another. He was always effeminate and I felt that he could be himself with me and not hide his sexuality as he would in public. Then one evening he came out and admitted to a male love he had in earlier years. He said he was tired of hiding who he really was. He didn't wish to be afraid anymore. He didn't want to be scared of entity judged or losing friends. He just felt he wanted to be genuine to himself. He was so afraid... terrified that I would leave him for coming out. So I told him, that even if he were gay, even if we had come from other religious backgrounds, if he were black, white or yellow, or severly disfigured.... I loved him for his heart, his ethics, his kindness. We construct a great team, we have an excellent association, we
Why Does She Attract Closeted Gay Men?
Posted by Sandy Weiner in dating after divorce, dating in midlife, red flags in relationships | 4 comments
Dear Sandy,
I listen to all of your podcasts and Admire them! They have been extremely helpful to me as I have been navigating the online digital dating world for a while now, searching for my mate who I understand is out there we just haven’t connected physically yet! So, THANK you for your wonderful counsel, sharing your experiences, and hosting interviews with extremely high caliber, professional guests.
I do have a petition or suggestion for a topic that I would like for you discuss. I have been on several dates and/or started relationships with men who I later found out were in the closet (gay). Actually, the warning signs were there when I first met these men, but I tried to dismiss them in my mind because how can you be 100% sure? I had lack of proof, and some men I guess may have effeminate characteristics and not be gay. I feel that even if they are not homosexual, they have strong feminine qualities that I am not attracted to. But this scenario is extremely frustrating for me and I’m struggling to realize why I attract closeted gay
Unread postby Sam W » Got it, so it does sound like a big part of this simply has to do with a certain type of guy (but not the only type of guy) you find attractive. And you to whom adversity has dealt the last blow/with smiling bastards lying to you everywhere you go/turn to and position out all your ability of arm and heart and brain/and like the Mary Ellen Carter
.Re: i'm a female & i'm (sexually) attracted to gay guys
When you want to be a guy in those moments, what is it, specifically, that you want? Is it to be able to engage in certain things sexually? To have a certain role in a sexual dynamic? Something else? And when you say this happens when you see endearing gay guys in your surroundings, are those guys who you know are gay, or who glance a certain way?
With fetishizing or objectifying people, that depends on whether you see these guys as individual, unique humans or more as a blank slate that you can project your desires onto. It's also sound to think about what's attracting you to them and how much of it might be based on stereotypes about that specific group (it might be the case that none of it is) rather than the realities of that individual person.